I am quite sore this morning. My arms ache from being tied over my head, and my legs ache from pulling against ropes. All my core muscles are tingly and sore. For the most part, this is a fantastic kind of sore and ache.
But, unfortunately, my lower back and hips also hurt in that way that suggests I probably fucked things up again (and maybe I should spend part of the morning in the hot tub). Maybe not as bad as I've fucked things up in the past doing things like, oh, unloading the dishwasher, but it's it's still there. (Apparently kink is still less dangerous than housework. That's good to know. Solution: more kink? Less dishes? I'm okay with that.)
So, this has taught us a few things. Although it's incredibly hot to be tied down in the way we tried last night, it's really not good for my hips and back to immobilize them in that way. I need to be able to bend at the hips, and the combination of (semi-involuntary) side-to-side hip movement and straining against the ropes at my ankles probably put pressure and tension in areas of my back and hips where it shouldn't have been. I have some ideas on how we can make things better and still make oh-so-pretty rope marks on my ankles, but we will have to experiment (carefully) a bit more to be sure.
But now we know. And we have some important data that may help us be safe and injury free when our order from Twisted Monk arrives.
Maybe there are people out there in the kink communities who have advice on "ergonomic bondage" or something. Haha.
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